Alot like love.

Humans are social animals. We cannot live without the people around us, and we are miserable in solitude. Everyone of us will fall in love at some point in our lives. Different people fall in love for different reasons. Some people, like me, are looking for companionship and company. Some people are looking for interesting people, others look for brains. Some will find good-lookers, some want to find the perfect one. Many things can happen, and will happen. You would never know what would happen until you have made a move. In physics and chemistry, we call it the uncertainty. The result doesn’t exist until an attempt has been made to discover the result. Some moves will result in success, while others will result in failures. It’s ok, it’s fine. Learn to move on. But dare to take the first step, because if you never start on the journey, you will never reach the end. Ladies included, for this is a new century, don’t have faith in boys, trust me. If you succeed, good for you, and I wish you luck, for I feel you are blessed. A relationship is one of fluid dynamics, difficult to maintain and balance. Effort must be put in to maintain the balance in the Force from both parties, if not it would be like playing a tennis game with you on both sides of the court. Keep youself in the game, and yet, make sure you remember who you are and what you stand for. It’s easy to lose yourself in this complex web, try not to, for if you do, you will definately lose more than what you stand to gain. When things don’t work out, you choose can run like I have always done, or you can face it. Give it up, and move on. Not moan over it, not cry over it, for the your world would collapse on you if you do. There’s a huge world out there, have faith. Maybe you would find love in the strangest and most unexpected corners of this cold and icy world. There would be people you hate, for destroying your life in the name of love. But remember, it’s a choice you made as well. Blame yourself, ask yourself before unleasing the wrath of God on the poor soul(s). You can cry it out like me, shattered into so many pieces and crash into the deep blue sea. But somehow, somewhere, there would be someone who would fix you up, piece by piece, and make you whole again. And you would move on in life again. Read, understand, comprehend. For I did not just spend 10 minutes writing nonsense and in the process causing myself to be late for classes. Hope it helps.

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